Watching the healing of of the bleeding woman on "The Chosen" I had an "Aha!" moment.
I realized that the woman's greatest hurt was that she was alone! Her healing was not the curing of her affliction but when Jesus told her that she was not alone, "I am with you!"!
She was isolated due to her affliction. She was was not "without blemish". Indeed when I judge an other we arI am turning away from them, isolating them. In turn I am also isolating myself.
For as I continue to judge I become more and more alone sharing the fate I wish upon others.